If a man does these things, he’s not in love – he’s obsessed with you

The difference between obsession and love

For some guys, it’s not just infatuation. They have a distorted idea of love, romance, and relationships.

If someone is in love with you, they trust you. They want you to be the best version of yourself and only want good things for you. That includes giving you space when you need it. On the other hand, someone who is obsessed with you will be jealous and possessive.

With that in mind, here are some big signs he’s obsessed with you — that he’s actually toxic.

When does the problem begin – is he in love or obsessed with you?

Signs that someone doesn’t love you, but has an unhealthy obsession

1. Brings you lots of attention – intense and constant

An obsessed man won’t be able to leave you – if the two of you aren’t together, he’ll text and call you continuously throughout the day no matter what time it is.

As this guy admires you, he keeps sending you gifts, love messages, and contacting you all the time – even when you ask him not to. He’s trying to get your attention and get hold of your time.It’s because what he feels isn’t just infatuation – it’s an intense obsession.

2. He Wants To Know Where You Are 24/7

No matter where you are or what you’re doing, it just seems like he’s trying to keep tabs on you. You can’t even breathe without having him watching you or wanting to know what you’re up to.

If you have a romantic history with him or are dating him it’s even worse, because he thinks he has “claimed” you.