And sometimes it makes you paranoid to think that a guy is basically obsessed with you to the point that he wants to follow your every step.

3. It takes an unreal time to be together

The obsessed man seems to forget about all other commitments. He’ll insist on seeing you, and if that’s not possible, he’ll talk on the phone with you for hours. He’ll just want to listen to your voice and tell you it makes him feel good and energizes him. He will ignore other aspects of his life for you

4. Jealous of people and activities that grab your attention

Because it should only be aimed at him. He may even make you quit your job because he sees your coworker as a threat to your relationship. In normal love relationships, jealousy is also allowed, but it’s not too painful and usually not entirely without cause. The obsessed man is constantly watching and checking on you when the two of you are not together.

5. He Tries To Control Everything You Do

He wants to force you to do everything he wants. Your decisions are no longer yours. He decides what you can and cannot do – or at least he tries to. He suffocates the freedom of your spirit, then says it is only because he cares about you. But make no mistake: this is toxic obsession and possessiveness!

Obsessed love begins with intense emotions, attention, and flattery and gradually turns into an unhealthy obsession with you.

This is not love. Thought so but not, sooner or later the truth will be clear. And the consequences won’t be light – for both of you.