Brides all want to have the perfect wedding day. There are some things at your wedding you can control, like the dress, the venue, catering and more, but you cannot always guarantee that everything will go according to plan.

However, this bride in our article today had an idea of how to execute her wedding day without a hitch. But she soon realizes that not everyone has the same view of the situation. Keep reading to learn more.

Taking to Reddit, the bride-to-be asked a question that she was mulling over: am I being unreasonable? In the popular subreddit of ‘AITAH’, which is an abbreviation for Am I The Asshole, she posted her situation.

She shared that she and her fiance sent a list of rules to the wedding guests and soon after began receiving cancelations.

She prefaced her post by saying that before people assumed she was ‘bridezilla’ imposing these rules against the will of her fiance, she wanted to make clear that he had equally contributed to the rules and was enthusiastically on board with all of them.

After that she went on to outline each rule individually.

According to her, some people who were leaving their children at home argued that they needed phones to check on their children but she had told them that if she had to make an exception for them, she would have to make it for everyone. She wrote, “Checking with your kids is not an emergency. If something serious happens you’ll know.”